This shadow drives us to gain the most knowledge and be the best. Whilst feeding our internal need, boosting our confidence and conviction, our clients also benefit from our absolute best.
Similar to being naughty, knowing that you are doing something ‘wrong’ or sticking it to the man. We can feed this in a healthy way by striving to do things differently for the purpose of creating a better outcome.
Having a strong influence over our circumstances, territory, ourselves or others enables us to create a freeing sense of security, certainty, protection & safety.
Most individuals and all organisations view things from one side of coin. To be truly authentic, we must be aware of both our golden values & those parts of ourselves that lurk in the unconscious or we turn a blind eye to. We gain strength & self-awareness in acknowledging them, as they unconsciously direct our lives. They teach us about our challenges & to look for healthy ways to feed our subconscious needs.